If you are not happy now..
you have a lot of time to figure things out
Don’t worry, you’ll get where you want to be.
We all have different explanation & definition of what happiness is what it means to each of us. No matter what challenges, crossroads & lifestyle changes you come across in your life, at the end of the day, your happiness is what truly matters most. As human, we can sometimes get into habits that we pick up from an early age or we can be easily influenced what our society thinks, or just general opinions that people we come across.
When you solely focus on the future to be happy, you end up ignoring the toxic habits & attitudes that could be dragging it down in the present. It won’t be a cakewalk but it is possible to a successful and upbeat Outlook now with some shifts to your mindsets and habits.
Without further ado, here are those things you need to do for a happy & stressed free life:-
MAKE PASSION YOUR DRIVER
If you work for happiness, you may not get it; but if you work with happiness, then you will get it. If you wish to achieve satisfaction in life, work according to your nature. Do the things you love doing since that will give you inner joy. Work is effortless when you love doing your work. whenever there is effort, it drains your energy; but when action is spontaneous, you will see that enthusiasm and energy remains with you all through. Freshness and smile are always there on your face. People would like to talk to you about your energy and enthusiasm. you will wake up every morning with limitless energy and enthusiasm. All your thoughts will be focused on your objective. You won’t have any time to waste. Once you find your purpose, life would become far more interesting and rewarding.
Neglecting passion blocks creative flow. But when passion and skill go together, the end result is often a master-piece.
IN CASE OF ANY MISTAKE ACKNOWLEDGED YOUR ERROR
Develop the courage to accept your mistakes, if any. Now-a-days, even the children refuse to agree. They tend to exhibit the stiffness like fried Savory, even if you request them to “say Sorry” This convention of seeking forgiveness should even be adopted by grown up persons. If you are able to accept your mistake and rely upon by saying sorry, you will acquire respect but be sure, that you do not repeat the mistake and just pronounce sorry, time and again. The person who acknowledges the mistake, actually possesses the human qualities but, the person who commits the mistake, after mistake is a savage or a brute but the person who goes on committing mistakes time and again has a devil figure. It does not damage the respect of a person accepting his own error.
DON’T THINK ILL OF OTHERS
one must acquire virtuous qualities, without vices. Instead of looking at others, one Should mind his/her own business. Some of you, might think or say, the window in the front house has beautiful glasses! I I have a scooter only whereas my neighbour enriched with a Mercedes Car! Instead of getting involved in jealousy, we should express gratitude to God who has blessed us a house. The possession of scooter is better than simple walking on foot, create a positive feeling that you will purchase a car by your hard work. But people remain envious these days because they feel aggrieved at this comfortable positions of other.One should never be behave as secret enemy.
“No matter how good or bad you think life is, wake up each day and be thankful for life. Someone somewhere else is fighting to survive”
ACCEPT YOUR LIMITATIONS
“Everyone is a genius, but if you judge a fish on its ability to climb a tree it will live its life believing it is stupid” ~Einstein
knowing your limits is necessary to self-growth. It’s true that there is much you can fulfill as a skilled leader and manager. There are some things in life that we cannot change despite of our best efforts. Too often you can be your own worst enemy when it comes creating stress and unrealistic demands upon yourself. You have great power when you both know & accept your own limitations.
Why do you adopt WORRYING? can the situation of worrying provide success? If it is so, then let the whole of your family remain in state of worrying. No, it does not happen so because if you develop worrying or acquire negative thoughts it is bound to cause damage in your profession and even routine activities. The chances of gaining advantages become negligible. It has no positive effect & when you worry in extremity, eventually loses the power of will. Also the person ceases to struggle over his or her problems and respond in a depressed & passive manner.